What to do if you have lost the feeling of love and falling in love?
I've been unlucky in love for the last 6 years. I fell in love unrequited, but very much. My days were very busy, as if all this non-reciprocity made me somehow become a better person or something. Over time, I realized that it was all about my low self-esteem, I began to raise it, took care of myself and at the same time was the subject of love. I was in an emotional swing, sometimes I feel good, sometimes I feel very bad. The mood changed several times during the day. Falling in love inspired me. But soon it stopped – I found reciprocity. But after a few days, I began to understand that 6 years of my loneliness, and the desire to be loved, were much more interesting and colorful than really being loved. I immediately got bored because someone liked me. As if I had fulfilled my goal. We broke up. But now I'm like an inanimate object. I don't want anything, no love, no sex, no communication with the opposite sex. As if there was no interest at all. As if I don't need it anymore, and I already know everything. It's like I've done my job and I won't get anything new from women. Friends all stick to relationships. They have quarrels, resentments against each other, but they still somehow manage to continue to live with each other, to love. They see each other constantly and manage not to get bored with each other. And I was completely exhausted from the second consecutive meeting with a girl, as if I was doing it through force.Is this a normal condition for a man, or do I have some psychological problems?