Why is it that when you have the courage to give up something that doesn't suit you, a big hole forms in your life?
It would seem that it should be the other way around, well done, that he gained courage, refused to communicate with women who do not give, from friends who are alcoholics, and life should become qualitatively better! But it turns out the opposite. Maybe it's better to live and be burdened, but for that everything seems to be arranged.
When a person gives up something that does not suit him, and takes it out of his life, it creates-yes, a hole, a void, a space. And the more space in a person's life was occupied by what he got rid of, the bigger the hole and more time spent in this state.
Then-on the principle of “A holy place is never empty” – it quietly and imperceptibly begins to fill up with something. If you do not help yourself and fill it with what you really want to have in your life (in a clever way, this is called something like “forming a new behavioral stereotype”), everything that follows is a matter of chance: you may or may not be lucky.
Your quote: “It may be better to live and be burdened, but for something like everything is arranged” – if, excuse the tautology, how everything is arranged, suits – you can live on. Only it is advisable to take into account that if in principle it has already reached the point of getting rid of something – is this exactly “satisfied”?