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  1. No way.

    Love is a dopaminergic goal-setting motivation to form stable pair bonds. Love is one of the things that made the monkey stand up on two legs so that he could carry more fruit to his girlfriend. Love is exactly the thing that keeps the male close to the female when she bears the fetus, gives birth to it through torment and raises it for a long time, because it is born with an underdeveloped head and cannot be independent for a long time, unlike other animals, otherwise it simply would not have passed the birth canal with a head of the right size. Love is the thing that keeps us in sufficient levels of dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin for healthy functioning and a full life.

    Yes, love can hurt. The male turns away from the female, the girl leaves the guy, the husband leaves the family. But there is nothing in the world that always works out well and goes according to plan. Things break down, feelings are not reciprocated, the USSR breaks up, entropy increases, a person is suddenly mortal.
    No, you can't deny yourself the miracle of love just because it supposedly bothers you. Nothing can replace its happiness, nothing can replace its physiological nature and biological meaning.

    I agree, the words that the biological purpose of a person is the continuation of the genus sound wildly vulgar, but biology is just that. Yes, you can argue with her. But no, you can't overcome it. A lack of dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin is the road to depression and diabetes.

    And, of course, saying that you never want to love anyone is a lie. If you didn't want to, if you were truly aromantic and asexual, you would never ask yourself this question. But you are lucky, you are capable of love. You love, love hurts you, and so you don't want to love anymore. But love hurts everyone. Yes, sometimes we are not destined to find a soul mate. But yes, sometimes we find it. Sometimes we can lose them. Sometimes we may not see it. But search, whether it is love, scientific, professional, student or whatever else, is the happiness of creativity. And if you value your studies so much, then you can also value your love.

    You can't stop falling in love. Accept it. The inevitable should be accepted indifferently. Be stoic. Relax and have fun. One day you will be lucky — and then you will know that all the pain and all the tears, all the obstacles and obstacles on the way were worth it, and you will be ready to live life again and go through all the same things, just to feel the miracle of love again. Again and again.

    Go for it.

  2. There are not many options for either having sex with the first comer who agrees. Or hate all the women and tell yourself that they are using you, they only need money.

  3. What is called love is actually a chemical reaction and hormones. All this is necessary so that humanity(and not only it) does not die out to hell. Therefore, you will not be able to abandon nature, but you can minimize it.

  4. What is called love is actually a chemical reaction and hormones. All this is necessary so that humanity(and not only it) does not die out to hell. Therefore, you will not be able to abandon nature, but you can minimize it.

  5. You can, of course, close yourself off from everyone, avoid contact with the opposite sex, refuse to make acquaintances. Only together with this, you will lose a lot of positive emotions from communication, and later, when you still want to fall in love, you may face difficulties in building relationships with young people… So it's up to you, just remember that studying is an important thing in life, but you should not give up other joys for it:)

  6. Love is just certain “chemical” reactions in the body to a person, music, or object

    You can stop falling in love only if you ignore / deny love(sympathy) for someone/from someone

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