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  1. I agree with what I already answered in the comments of ALEKSEY THE BEST. Psychological defenses. Displacement, negation. Defenses are quite good when they are adaptive. You can also describe it in another model: if there was a dependency, then the natural way out of it is through counter-dependency. That is, not in free communication (instead of addiction), but in a powerful automatic repulsion: a person, the entire topic. Pain, of course, under this, if you pick. But if you have this experience will not somehow interfere with the “background” in your next relationship, then there is no need to pick anything: the psyche is healthy, it will heal under the crust!))

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