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Recent Questions
- Can a person understand that he has gone mad?
- Have you had any difficult and hopeless situations in your life that you still got out of?
- Why do religious people not understand the importance of what is said in their religion?
- If God is love, then why did he punish people so severely in some situations? For example, the Azotans, when God punished them with growths, i.e. plague.
- Is there a connection between the emergence of religion and cave art?
Do you really want to do this?
Do you really want the person you love to be better than you in almost everything? Try to survive in such a relationship for half a year, and this thesis will no longer be so sure. You will start to get annoyed with how perfect he/she is, or you will start to live with the feeling that you are not worthy of your “half” piece of shit. Well, of course, we don't talk about exceptions. This is the answer to the first question.
Answer to the second question: learning from others is more pleasant, because you don't fill up the unpleasant bumps of life experience.
The answer lies in the question itself, in the word “half”. An adult is a “whole” person, not a “half” person, so he doesn't need a “half” person, but a “whole” Adult. If we need a partner from whom we intend to “learn life”, then, most likely, we take the position and play the role of a Child, not an Adult, and, accordingly, we are looking for a Parent partner. This, of course, is not a crime, and millions of people live quite well in such a Parent-Child relationship. There are also relationships “on the contrary”, when a person looking for a partner needs just to be a Mentor, that is, a Parent. The main thing here is to find each other.